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Talking to Teens About Healthy Relationships: Normalizing the Conversation in Schools
August 30, 2022

A note from blog moderator Dr. Patty Huang: Dr. Ashlee Murray, Director of the Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) Task Force and attending physician in the Division of Emergency Medicine at CHOP, recently co-wrote a CHOP PolicyLab blog post with CIRP research assistant Masha Morozov about a school-based program to help Philadelphia teens learn about components of healthy and unhealthy relationships. An excerpt of the blog post is included below.

Youth are eagerly going back to school around the country in hopes of a safe and fun year. Yet, teen dating violence, or TDV, is a reality that many adolescents will experience while in school this year. TDV is an adverse childhood experience that can include physical violence, sexual violence, psychological aggression and/or stalking. TDV also has lasting impacts that can put youth at risk for long-term high-risk behavior and poor health outcomes.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s (CDC) 2019 Youth Risk Behavior Survey, 1 in 12 U.S. high school students experienced physical dating violence and/or sexual dating violence. The CDC also reports that 17% of LGBTQIA+ teens have experienced teen dating violence. In addition, the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence reports that nearly 21% of adolescent females and 13% of adolescent males have experienced TDV, yet only one-third of these students actually report it.

Heading back to school poses the risk of exposure to TDV for all students, regardless of one’s sexual or gender identity. Therefore, it’s important for schools to recognize this risk and to prepare. Research shows that talking about and educating youth on healthy relationships not only at home, but also in schools, can give adolescents the skills to recognize unhealthy relationships and prevent TDV. As researchers working in this space, we’ll share just one example of how providing this support can help normalize these conversations and empower youth in their relationships. 

TDV Prevention Programming in Schools

At Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia, we have partnered with Lutheran Settlement House for the past decade connecting patients and families with the organization’s Bilingual Domestic Violence Program (BDVP) through CHOP’s STOP Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) program. This spring, we had the opportunity to further expand our partnership by supporting the Students Talking About Relationships (STAR) program within two high schools in West Philadelphia.

STAR is a 10-week school-based curriculum extracted from Safe Dates—a well-known and thoroughly studied evidence-based teen relationship abuse prevention curriculum—and culturally adapted for Philadelphia teens. The Safe Dates program was found to be effective in both preventing and reducing perpetration among teens already using violence against their dates and has proven to be equally effective for males and females and across racial and ethnic groups. 

The overall goal of STAR is to create a safe space in schools for students to discuss the many components of what makes relationships healthy or unhealthy, including topics like:

  • recognizing the dynamics of relationships
  • defining dating abuse
  • understanding why some people abuse and learning how to help
  • accepting power in society
  • communication techniques
  • preventing dating abuse
  • how to help a friend in need

Furthermore, STAR is a teen leadership development program. After students complete the Summer STAR curriculum, teen advocates are recruited as community leaders to lead STAR programming. Participants are paid for this opportunity to develop their leadership skills while disseminating important knowledge to their peers.

Through our partnership, we recruited six teen advocates, who completed a six-week training with TDV specialists from Lutheran Settlement House. We also identified two stakeholders (one school social worker and one guidance counselor) from two West Philadelphia high schools, who we interviewed to better understand their schools’ dynamic as well as their own knowledge of TDV prevention and support services. Both stakeholders had previous exposure to the STAR program and have close relationships with the students.

We utilized an implementation science approach to study the impact of STAR by conducting pre- and post-participation surveys with the six teen advocates, two key stakeholders and adolescent students at each school. Our preliminary results suggest that prior to participating in the STAR program, most teens were not able to differentiate between warning signs of an unhealthy relationship and what a “normal” relationship looks like, and most were unprepared if they were to find themselves in an unhealthy relationship, with some saying that they “would just stay because I don’t know what else to do.”

The stakeholders both reported that prior to the STAR program, they would primarily hear talk of unhealthy relationships between students at their school, and they often witnessed signs of unhealthy relationships. Following the STAR program, they reported that more conversations about identifying unhealthy relationships were unfolding, and they felt more comfortable talking to their students about TDV issues.

Click here to read the full post on PolicyLab's website.